Ever find yourself thinking thoughts like these? It sure would be nice if I had the time to prepare good low fat and low calorie meals. I know I would lose weight then. I am so tired when I get home from work that I just pop anything I can find in the microwave and eat in front of the TV. The kids take up so much of my time that I just can never get anything prepared that seems to be a healthy meal. All these thoughts gang up on people when they are trying to figure out exactly how they are going to shed the excess weight that they want to. And it's not like these issues aren't valid, you have a life to live and other folks are in your life. It's not like you just can go off by yourself and live in a cave eating brown rice for each meal. This is the real world and you need some help slimming down that works in the real world. First step. This is your life. You are the one who feels bad about being overweight. And it is your right to be able to take proper care of yourself in a way that makes you feel great. In a way that makes you feel healthy and in a way that tells others you are just as important in your life as they are. That is a fact. It is not like they are likely to do the training for you. They are not going to look at you and ask if you need some help figuring out a healthy eating plan. You will have to tell them. And this is what prevents many people cold when it comes time to make that big mindset change. They make up the worst type of things in their minds and imagine the other people telling those things to them. True enough, occasionally, your husband or wife is going to complain. Sometimes your kids will want pocket pizzas every night just like they used to eat. But a large number of times, people will just say, OK, what can I do to help. The easy way to figure out how to make your life work so that you can lose weight is to carry out some advance planning. But you can actually only do that if you decide it is important enough to spend some time on. Dishes which are prepared in advance of when you need to eat them are almost always much more nutritious in a healthy way than meals you eat on the go. Deciding on a menu and making a week's dinners ahead of time ends up being a lot easier way to eat than almost any other approach. You get the opportunity to work out ahead of time what you need to buy to make the meals and you buy those things. You wind up buying surprisingly few additional high calorie snack foods. It is kind of funny. People have this whole way of thinking against planning out their week's worth of eating, but once they start and continue long enough to see some results, they become really pleased with their advancement. Fair warning though, it's hard to plan out a year's worth of meals. Making a schedule of what you are going to eat and sticking to it is one of the best ways to change your eating habits. And changing your eating habits is about the most effective way ever to burn fat and keep it off.